The Three Purses – The Legend of Saint Nicholaus (Turkey)


The Storyteller Online – Dr. Mike Lockett.

The three purses

The three purses

Long ago was a man named Nicholas.  He was a kind man who served God in a small seaside town in western Turkey named Myra.  He became the leader of the church in the town and was called the Bishop of Myra.

 

There are many wonderful stories about this kind man.  One of the happiest stories is about The Three Purses.

 

There were three beautiful young girls who were daughters of a nobleman. Their father was once wealthy and important.  When the daughters were little, everyone knew they would one day marry wealthy men and live fine lives.

 

But, as time passed, the father became poor.  He lost his money and became poor.  He was so poor that he had no to buy food or clothes for his daughters.  The daughters could often be heard crying.  Worse than being cold and hungry, they had no money for their dowries.  They would never be able to get married.

 

In olden times in that land, a single girl had to have a dowry.  This was money that the girl’s parents gave to the groom at the time of the wedding.  No respectable young man would be allowed by his parents to marry a girl who had no dowry, no matter how much he might love the girl.

 

Their father was ashamed that he could not make his daughters happy.  Many nights he sat up late, just looking at his sleeping daughters, remembering when times had been better.

 

One day Nicholas heard of the sad state of this family. One night when the maidens were asleep, the good man took a handful of gold coins and put them into a bag, called a purse.  He went to the nobleman’s house.  The windows were often left open to let in the cool night air, and Nicholas found the open window where the three daughters slept.  He threw the purse into the room where it landed on the bed of the sleeping maidens.

 

This was one of the nights when the father had stayed up late.  He heard something hit the bed, something that sounded like coins.  He picked up the purse and opened it.  When he saw the gold coins, he rejoiced and awakened his daughters. He gave most of the gold to his eldest child for a dowry.  This allowed her to marry the man whom she loved.

 

A few days later Saint Nicholas filled another purse with gold.  Again, he went by night to the nobleman’s house.  Again he tossed the purse through the open window. This allowed the second daughter to marry the young man she loved.

 

The nobleman felt very grateful to the unknown person who threw purses of gold in though his window.  He wanted to know who the giver was in order to thank him. So the next night he watched beneath the open window.   As he watched, the good Nicholas came for the third time.  He carried a silken purse filled with gold.  Just as he was about to throw into the window onto the youngest daughter’s bed, the nobleman caught him by his robe, crying: —

 

“Oh good Saint Nicholas! why do you hide yourself and do your good deeds at night?”

The father kissed the Bishop’s hands.  But, Nicholas, was overcome with confusion at having been discovered.  He begged the nobleman not to tell anyone what had happened.

 

The nobleman’s third daughter was able to marry the young man whom she loved.  She and her father, her two sisters and the women’s three husbands lived happily for the rest of their lives.  Was the nobleman able to keep the secret?  I don’t think so, because this story has been told over and over for many years.  And the good Bishop was the first to be called by the name we know today – Saint Nicholas.

Click here to read the previous “Christmas Story Around the World” – The Legend of the Christmas Stocking

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BBC News – Bangladesh bride disowns her ‘dowry demanding’ husband


BBC News – Bangladesh bride disowns her ‘dowry demanding’ husband.

A top human rights group in Bangladesh has praised a bride who disowned her husband within minutes of their wedding because he demanded a dowry.

Sultana Kamal of the Ask rights group said that Farzana Yasmin had taken a “principled and brave stand against the gross injustice of dowry payments”.

Ms Yasmin told the BBC that dowries “were the cancer of society”.

Giving or receiving dowries is a criminal offence in Bangladesh but is still widely practised.

“Ms Yasmin has shown considerable bravery in doing what she did to highlight the evil and oppressive dowry system,” said Ms Kamal, the head of the Ain o Salish Kendra (Ask) rights group.

She said that the number of enforced dowries in rural areas was alarming, and that it was not diminishing despite government efforts to wipe out the tradition.

“Already she is facing recriminations with several parties trying to defame her and portray her as a loose woman. In fact she is a heroine of Bangladesh.”

‘Have to protest’

Ms Yasmin’s decision to divorce her husband within minutes of their wedding in the conservative southern district of Barguna has sent shockwaves through the country, with supporters and opponents of her action fiercely arguing their cases on Facebook.

The “10-minute bride” told the BBC that she wanted other “dowry-oppressed women” in Bangladesh to be inspired by her actions, which correspondents say appear to be without precedent.

“The dowry has become a cancer of our society. I have read this in newspapers and always wondered why people should put up with it,” the masters graduate told the BBC’s Shakeel Anwar.

“When I found myself getting caught up with this, I thought I have to protest.

“I know I cannot change the fate of thousands of other similarly oppressed women in the country but at least I have taken a stand.”

Ms Yasmin – who has fled her home village to take refuge with friends and family in Dhaka – denounced her husband as she was about to be taken to her wedding car at the end of her marriage celebrations.

She told the BBC that he and his family wanted to delay her departure until they had received “gifts”, including a TV and a fridge.

“My older sister reacted: ‘We are going to give you our girl only, nothing else was promised’,” she said.

Ms Yasmin said that she was “dumbfounded” by the actions of her “rogue husband” and his family. She ended up discarding her wedding dress and storming out of the ceremony.

She says that she is now filing for divorce.