Hundreds of unknown remains laid to rest with dignity in L.A


Hundreds of unknown remains laid to rest with dignity in L.A. – CNN.com.

Hundreds of unknown remains laid to rest with dignity in L.A. - CNN.comLos Angeles (CNN) — Beneath a simple gray stone marker that reads “2008,” on a gentle slope at the Los Angeles County Crematory and Cemetery, lie the unclaimed remains of the poor, the homeless, the addicted and the lonely.

Several clergy members extended their arms over the spare gravesite Wednesday morning and gave a final blessing to the 1,639 people who were cremated and buried there because no family member claimed their bodies.

All of the departed passed away in 2008.

“We started these ceremonies (for the unclaimed) in 1896,” said Andrew Veis, an aide to Fourth District Supervisor Don Knabe. “These people were sick, poor, homeless, no family. Some could not afford to pay for the cremation. The county is their ultimate safety net. We can give them a decent and respectful burial.”

The numbers of the unclaimed are heartbreakingly steady. Last year, 1,698 such people were cremated here, the year before, 1,798. The cemetery must wait three years before burying unclaimed bodies.

Sometimes family members suffer the double pain of losing a loved one and not being able to pay for a funeral, and then don’t claim their loved because they’re too broke.

“It just doesn’t have to be that way,” said Stella Inouye, a financial services coordinator for the cemetery. “It costs $352 to bury and cremate someone taken from the county hospital and $466 if they pass away somewhere else. But (family members) can write a hardship letter and get the fees waived”

About 15 people ringed the gravesite Wednesday, most of them volunteers or social workers from L.A’s downtown homeless community, Skid Row.

“These people may well have been guests at our soup kitchen or even at our house,” said Jeff Dietrich, from Hospitality Kitchen, which provides meals for people in need. “I feel like it’s kind of a poignant situation when there are so many unclaimed bodies to be buried and so many untold stories and so many disconnected people.

“I think the important thing for us is to just try in these last few hours of their earthly presence to be a presence to them and deeply connected.”

Chris Ponnet, spiritual director of care at the Los Angeles County and University of Southern California Medical Center, led the clergy.

“We gather in this sacred space where so many others are buried and trusting these nameless and named but unclaimed people into your embrace,” the chaplain said.

Other clergy offered blessings in Hindu, Buddhist and Jewish traditions.

“This is a day of eternal life,” began Rambhoeu Brinkmann in the Hindu tradition. “There will be for them all that they wish and more besides, in our presence.”

The ceremony ended quickly and the attendees left behind grave marker “2008,” adorned with a yellow bow and a small collection of flowers, including roses.

About these ads

Brier Dudley’s Blog | Bill Gates on being the top 1 percent, Fox News and taxes | Seattle Times Newspaper


Brier Dudley’s Blog | Bill Gates on being the top 1 percent, Fox News and taxes | Seattle Times Newspaper.

 

Bill Gates really cut loose during the question and answer portion of his lecture at the University of Washington’s Paul G. Allen Center.

Asked about economic disparity, how money is influencing politics and the challenge voters face making informed decisions, Gates said “the world at large is less inequitable today than at any time in history.”

The number of people around the world in abject poverty has gone down, as has the mortality rate for young children, he said.

But there is clearly concentration of wealth, said the man who was the world’s richest for many years.

“You’re absolutely right. There’s some big fortunes and society can’t – it’s not good to have a society where you don’t have mobility in between different income levels. That is, if you’re born in the bottom quartile, education ought to be good enough that you have a reasonable chance of getting into the first or second quartile.”

Education is the key, he said.

“So if you really look at where we’re letting people down in terms of the American dream, I wouldn’t say – you can take this as self-serving – I wouldn’t say it’s because of a few people are very rich. I’d say it’s because we haven’t been doing a good job on education to give them an opportunity to move up into the top few percent.”

As for the ultrarich, Gates noted that he and Warren Buffett have encouraged other billionaires to share more of their wealth.

“The rich should give away more of their wealth than they currently do, and we’ve certainly been willing to speak out about that. Warren’s the only person who’s ever had a tax named after him — the Buffett tax.”

Gates said he was just in Washington, D.C., trying to explain to members of Congress that it won’t help the country to cut spending on science projects.

“You can be very frustrated with the political system — I certainly am.”

Gates said he doesn’t know why politics are so fractured today.

“Maybe the system will realize the problems that it has there, but I don’t think that just by getting rid of the wealthiest in the country that will solve all these problems,” he said.

Then he reiterated that better education is key – and education costs should come down – to make society more equitable.

Gates said that “money politics” and political districts that enable extreme politicians to hold their seats are factors.

The media’s also partly to blame, he said.

“Certainly, the media — people do wonder if this polarization comes from the Fox News phenomenon, that you’re just listening to the people who agree with you,” he said. “I don’t really know.”

Another challenge is the complexity of topics such as taxes and healthcare reform.

“The U.S. tax code is so complex that you don’t know where to be outraged and you don’t have time to read it,” he said.

Another student told Gates that growing up, she wanted to be the richest person in the world, and she wanted advice.

Gates gave a long and thoughtful response.

“I didn’t start out with a dream of being superrich,” he said, noting that after the Intel founders became billionaires, “I thought, wow, that must be strange … It is.’

Here’s his advice:

“Most people who have done well have just found something they’re nuts about doing. Then they figure out a system to hire their friends to do it with them. If it’s an area of great impact then sometimes you get financial independence.”

Gates said crazy money isn’t all that it’s cracked up to be.

“Wealth above a certain level … really it’s a responsibility,” he said, explaining that you’re either going to have to leave it to your children or “be smart about giving it away.”

“I can understand about having millions of dollars,” he said. “There’s meaningful freedom that comes with that, but once you get much beyond that I have to tell you, it’s the same hamburger. Dick’s has not raised their prices enough.”

“But being ambitious is good. You just have to pick what you enjoy doing.”

Ancient Chinese Principles of Educating Children: Cultivating Moral Character and Virtue


Ancient Chinese Principles of Educating Children: Cultivating Moral Character and Virtue.

Fan Zhongyan Educated His Children to Be Noble-minded

Fan Zhongyan was a thinker and an educator, during the Northern Song Dynasty, who was familiar with Confucianism and Taoism. He believed in Buddhism, and he served as a political advisor. In his “Yueyang Tower,” he wrote the everlasting sentence, “One should be the first to think about the state and the last to claim his share of happiness.” He was very strict in educating his children. He taught his children to be self-cultivated and do good deeds. From his teachings, his four sons all gained profound knowledge and integrity. The Fan family was frugal and loved to help others.

Fan Zhongyan once directed his second son, Fan Chunren, to bring buckets of wheat from Suzhou to Sichuan Province. On his way back, Chunren met his old friend Shi Manqing. He quickly learned that Shi’s family had become destitute. Shi’s family members had passed away, but he had no money for the funerals or plots. As soon as Chunren heard of Shi’s plight, he gave the buckets of wheat to him as a gift to help him go back to his hometown. Fan Chunren went home and was nervous about telling this to his father, so he just stood near his father for a long time and was afraid of mentioning it. Fan Zhongyan asked him, “Did you meet with your friend at Suzhou?” Fan Chunren said, “Yes, when I passed by Danyang, I met Shi Manqing. He was stuck there without enough money.” Fan Zhongyan said, “Why didn’t you give him the wheat?” Fan Chunren said, “I did.” When Fan Zhongyan heard what his son had done, he was very pleased and repeatedly praised his son for doing the right thing.

Although Fan Zhongyan attained a high rank in the government and had a high income, he didn’t keep money for his children, and instead used all his wealth to help the poor, and served as a role model for his offspring. When his first son Fan Chunyou was 16, he followed Fan Zhongyan to fight against Xixia and received many rewards for his bravery. He was his father’s great assistant. The second son, Fan Chunren, later took over as the prime minister. During the 50 years he worked as a government official, he had done everything to carry out his responsibilities. The third son, Fan Chunli, was an assistant to the premier. The fourth son, Fan Chuncui, was deputy minister of civil affairs. With their father’s positive influence, the sons were all righteous and caring towards their people. They were honest, upright, and frugal. They used most of their income to help the poor villages and lived a frugal life themselves.

The ancient philosophy of family education has always included an orientation towards viewing ethics as the highest moral value. Parents always want to leave the best for their children. In fact, regardless of how much money parents leave for their children, they are merely worldly possessions. Only teaching children to do good deeds and focusing on virtue is a desirable long-term plan for children, because virtue is the most fundamental and the best attribute. It is the source of all blessings. It is the most reliable wealth you can leave for your children.

Posting date: 3/26/2011
Category: Traditional Culture
Chinese version available at http://www.minghui.org/mh/articles/2011/3/3/古人教子理念-重德修身(四)-236986.html