“If Only I Had Teeth Down There!” | Mama’s Health Blog


“If Only I Had Teeth Down There!” | Mama’s Health Blog.

Rapex Condom

Rapex Condom

Call it provocative, call it medieval, whatever you call it aside from self-defense classes, self-imposed curfews and bodyguards it has to be one of the most progressive devices created to help prevent the rape of women. Invented by South African doctor Dr. Sonnet Ehlers after treating a rape victim who said, “If only I had teeth down there,” the female condom dubbed “Rapex” is being readied for distribution after 20 years of research.

“According to Dr. Ehlers “As soon as the man puts his penis in the woman’s vagina the condom catches it. The “teeth” of the condom then penetrates his skin and causes severe pain. The man will have to go to a hospital to have the condom removed,” she said. It will also collect the rapist’s DNA.”

30,000 of these condoms are being distributed in South African in various cities where the World Cup games are being played. South Africa has one of highest incidences of rape in the world.

While some think it increases a woman’s feeling of vulnerability, one could argue that women walk in the world and shape their lives around knowing their vulnerabilities. Others argue that the device is medieval, “Yes, my device may be a medieval,” Dr. Ehlers says, “but it’s for a medieval deed that has been around for decades,” she said. “I believe something’s got to be done … and this will make some men rethink before they assault a woman.”

While I don’t believe one thing will prevent rape, I do believe in having an arsenal from which to choose. What do you think?

Someone hand me my mace, my brass knuckles and my Rapex condom. It’s eleven at night and we need a loaf of bread!

- Aunt B

 

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Judge Halts Mississippi Pardons After Uproar


Judge Halts Mississippi Pardons After Uproar – Yahoo! News.

As victims’ loved ones ask why killers and rapists got pardoned by former Mississippi Gov. Haley Barbour during his final hours in office, a Mississippi state judge has temporarily halted the release of 21 of the 200-plus pardoned inmates.

Mississippi Attorney General Jim Hood had requested the injunction against the inmates’ releases, telling reporters he believes some of Barbour’s pardons could have violated the state constitution by failing to give sufficient public notice that the convicts were seeking clemency.

The state constitution requires a public notice about an inmate’s intention to seek a pardon be published for 30 days before the governor can grant one.

Five former inmates, four of them convicted of murder and serving life sentences, have already been released. The state’s top lawyer is asking the court to serve those former inmates notices underlining that their release may be challenged.

(ABC News)

The news came as families of loved ones killed, raped or robbed by the men and women set free are speaking out against Barbour’s actions, saying they wish he had spoken to them first.

“I have a lot of feelings,” said Betty Ellis, whose daughter was killed by her estranged husband, David Gatlin, in 1993.

Gatlin received one of the 210 last-minute pardons – nearly twice the number issued since 1988. Some of the pardons were for prisoners assigned to cook and clean at the governor’s mansion. Four of those inmates were convicted murderers.

“I’ve been mad. I can’t understand how a man that has children of his own could do this,” said Ellis, who marched to the state capital, Jackson, Miss., searching for Barbour.

Barbour, a Republican, released a statement Wednesday evening saying that 189 of the 215 people pardoned were already out of prison.

“My decision about clemency was based upon the recommendation of the parole board in more than 90 percent of the cases,” the statement said, according to WTVA-TV.

Thirteen on the 26 inmates released from custody were costly to the state because of medical expenses and can be returned to custody if they commit another crime.

Another three pardoned inmates were listed as receiving a suspended sentence, according to the statement   All 16 are said to still be under the supervision of the Mississippi Department of Corrections.  Information on the remaining 10 of the pardoned inmates wasn’t included in the statement.

On the same night Ellis’ daughter was killed in 1993, Gatlin shot Randy Walker in the head and left him for dead. Walker said Barbour’s move has given the state “a black eye.”

“This is going to make national news,” he said.

He too traveled to Jackson, where he spoke with Gov. Phil Bryant, who’d been sworn in just hours before Barbour had issued the pardons and left office.

Although Bryant told Walker that he would not have pardoned convicted murderers, he said: “The constitution gives the governor that authority and that’s his decision to make.”

That is little comfort for Walker’s wife, Crystal Walker, who told Jackson’s Clarion Ledger that both she and her husband now fear for their lives.

“On parole, he’d at least have to check in and have some supervision,” she said Sunday. “Now he could live beside us, or we could run into him at Walmart. You’re always looking over your shoulder.”

Barbour remains a popular leader in the state. He is credited with speeding up the state’s recovery from Hurricane Katrina. Barbour maintained that freeing those who worked at the mansion was a Mississippi tradition to show them mercy.

But Mark Mayfield, a lawyer, said the public just didn’t get it and neither did he.

“Haley has done a lot of great things,” Mayfield said today, “but I’m afraid that in the large measure this will tarnish his image as he goes forward.”

Turkish outrage: Supreme Court says 13 year-old girl ‘consented’ to rape | Care2 Causes


Turkish outrage: Supreme Court says 13 year-old girl ‘consented’ to rape | Care2 Causes.

A major scandal has hit Turkey over the Supreme Court ruling last week that a 13-year-old girl raped by 26 men over a seven month period had given her consent to her sexual abuse.

They upheld an earlier decision by a local court in Mardin Province, South-Eastern Turkey, to reduce the sentences, and her rapists were either acquitted or given between one to slightly more than four years in jail due to ‘good behavior in the courtroom’ and the judges’ finding that she ‘willingly consented to the abuse.’

Her rapists included muhtars, or village heads, a gendarmerie captain, village guards (individuals armed by the state to fight separatist terrorists in the region) and even the manager in charge of correspondence in the Governor’s Office. She was sold by two individuals for seven months to these 26 men, some of whom came back repeatedly.

Women’s rights activist Leman Yurtsever, who has acted as foster mother to the woman, N.Ç., now 20, said she was planning to take the case to the European Court of Human Rights.

The Turkish government’s Family and Social Policies Minister Fatma Şahin called the ruling “unacceptable and worrying” but said the court was yet to pronounce its final word.

“The Supreme Court of Appeals is saying that the case is not yet over and that the media have distorted the issue. Let’s wait and see their decision,” Şahin told reporters on Thursday.

Justice Minister Sadullah Ergin said the controversy arose from the fact that the case pertained to offenses committed before a penal code reform introduced tougher provisions on rape in 2005.

The Turkish Bar Association, however, said Friday that even the implementation of old provisions could not justify the ruling.

“To consider and accept that N.Ç. willingly allowed herself to be raped is against the realities of life, and also against the letter and spirit of the law that was in effect when the offenses were committed,” the association said in a statement.

Turkish President Abdullah Gül also commented on the scandal, stating that he was “deeply disturbed” by the reduction of sentences.

“As far as I know, the judiciary process isn’t over yet,” Gül Tweeted. “I hope that a decision will be made that would coincide with the public conscience.”

Yurtsever said N.Ç. is learning English and wants to study law “to get back at those who put her through all this torture.”

“For the past nine years, she hasn’t had a single night of peaceful sleep. I told her there were news stories about her; she didn’t even talk about it because she is trying to get away from it all. What she went through is always there somewhere in the back of her mind.”

Yurtsever said the ruling was a serious blow.

“One night when we were watching news of the ruling on television, we just went out and walked the streets until midnight. She has been to hospitals so many times due to the physical effects. She is still having problems.”

N.Ç.’s lawyer, Reyhan Yalçındağ Baydemir, said they had expected the Supreme Court of Appeals to overturn the decision, but its 14th Chamber had upheld the lower court’s ruling.

“The case has been in their hands for 13 months, but now this is the 11th year of the trial. So we have a problem of justice working slowly here. Why are they taking 13 months on a case that has become a major trial both in Turkey and in the world? They are causing the file to be subject to the statute of limitations.”

National Turk newspaper commented that:

“Turkey’s failure to protect its children and women from rapists was inherently connected to patriarchal attitudes, such as the government’s move last year to change the name of the women’s ministry to the Ministry of Family and Social Policy.”

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